Dickgirl, Shemale, Trans, Tranny, Futanari, Hermaphrodite.
Now, of course, all these terms have their own tweaks and differences in meaning. What they do have in common, however, (aside from male genitalia) is their role in the advent of transgender porn. Not only this, but the proliferation of terms and definitions suggest that being attracted to and indulging in Trans porn, is increasingly acceptable.
For the sake of simplicity, I’m deliberately grouping all the aforementioned categories and terms under the banner of Trans.
Simply put, is Trans porn verging on normality? Well, I for one certainly hope so. That doesn’t mean that it’s losing its exotic nature, though.
Perhaps over time, if changing sex becomes a far easier ordeal, that might be the case. For the foreseeable future, however, I believe Shemales and Dickgirls will always maintain a shroud of exotic mystery. And I mean that in purely positive and exciting terms.
Unfortunately, being different and exotic – and let’s face it, fabulous – also goes hand in hand with stigma and hate. There will always be those that feel the need to degrade either transgenders or people that are sexually attracted to the Trans community.
Of course, this discrimination has nothing to do with those that simply don’t find this kind of porn attractive. There have been many comments on Affect3D, for example, requesting more straight porn. And it’s a perfectly valid request. People want to see what they find hot. As long as that demand doesn’t come with slurs against others’ preferences, naturally there is nothing wrong with that.
Right, so now that we’re past the PC part, I thought I’d share my own experience.
Firstly, I’m straight. After reading this article, you might beg to differ. Well, good for you – that’s your opinion and you’re entitled to it. But let’s get one thing straight (pun intended), this article isn’t about my sexual orientation. That said, feel free to comment and share your thoughts. What this editorial is about, is the impact porn and 3DX have had on my life in recent years.
I first encountered futanari in hentai, probably around the age of twelve when the internet was really starting to scare parents. Whilst it didn’t traumatize me, I felt zero attraction towards it. The genre simply wasn’t appealing. Put a pic of a naked busty brunette in front of my eyes though and I could cum in nanoseconds. Fast-forward a few years, I’m on the verge of losing my virginity and the sight of my girlfriend undressing had the same effect. I became “resilient” to straight porn but seeing a real-life girl was just as effective as that 2D busty brunette.
Then came G4E. Up until this point, besides my clumsy encounter with hentai years earlier, and a few curious clicks on PornHub‘s Shemale category, I was none the wiser or more attracted to that genre. But Miro’s work changed that. There was something really fucking hot about the way Tara teased Sayako into fucking her brains out with that massive cock. Something unexplainably attractive about the way she wielded her incredible member. Miro had taken the male out of the picture entirely. And he had done so while maintaining the tension and electricity of straight porn. I found myself returning to G4E over and over.
A few years later, I graduated and moved to London. In London, no one judges, no one cares. In fact, the more outlandish, the freakier you are, the better – “I fink u freaky and I like it a lot”. This is also when I met tinder. Basically, it became easy to fuck and meet people you wouldn’t otherwise have met. All the while I continued to visit Affect3D and eventually started writing for the site in 2016.
Now I’ve gotta say, I love posts by artists such as Laticis or Rgus, who are experts at portraying the “fairer sex”. But I mostly come to Affect3D and virtual porn for something else, for a taste of something I can’t find in the real world.
And then I met Lola (I have changed her name for the article). Right before I left London for Paris, I was out clubbing one night and “bumped” into a very attractive young woman. She invited me back to hers. Up to this point, I hadn’t noticed anything particular about Lola – aside from the fact that she was hot. Maybe I just need better contact lenses.
It wasn’t until we were back at hers and got down to undressing that well, turns out Lola had a bit of a secret. And I don’t mean the brand of her lingerie. My first reaction was to pull back. I just couldn’t comprehend what had just happened. We both sat on the edge of her bed and talked. Only now, with a little extra light did I notice her features were a little sharper. And listening to her – that her voice was a little different. But I still found her hot as fuck, that’s the thing. I knew she was hiding a dick. But sitting there in her lingerie, she still made my boner return. We continued to chat and one thing led to another.
At this point, I also recalled Miro’s and many other 3DX artists’ work. The reality was very different. For one, Lola did not have a massive eight-inch cock. And she was in no way top. She was also incredibly feminine. In fact, it was weird – my brain kept forgetting she even had a cock.
I actually saw Lola a couple more times after that night and would have probably seen more of her had I not moved. The whole experience got me thinking. Indeed, I started drawing parallels with other ways in which pornography influences me and my sexuality. I know for example that I’m more attracted to girls with a shaved pussy. And that is definitely something that continues to cement itself over the years as I watch porn.
However, this was something different – I had found myself attracted to a person who was technically not a female. But In her mind, and therefore in mine, she became one. It was a step farther. Perhaps it was already an aspect of my sexuality I simply wasn’t aware of – that was dormant until I met the right person. But I strongly feel that had sites like Affect3D and categories like Shemales or Dickgirls not existed in porn, this is a fantasy I would undoubtedly not have explored IRL.
I’m not trying to find justification or even an explanation here. I’m simply curious as to the impact pornography has on my choices and attractions.
As I said earlier – feel free to share your thoughts or experiences of how Affect3D or other 3DX and even porn, in general, has affected your life.