Dickgirl, Shemale, Trans, Tranny, Futanari, Hermaphrodite.
Now, of course, all these terms have their own tweaks and differences in meaning. What they do have in common, however, (aside from male genitalia) is their role in the advent of transgender porn. Not only this, but the proliferation of terms and definitions suggest that being attracted to and indulging in Trans porn, is increasingly acceptable.
For the sake of simplicity, I’m deliberately grouping all the aforementioned categories and terms under the banner of Trans.
Simply put, is Trans porn verging on normality? Well, I for one certainly hope so. That doesn’t mean that it’s losing its exotic nature, though.
Perhaps over time, if changing sex becomes a far easier ordeal, that might be the case. For the foreseeable future, however, I believe Shemales and Dickgirls will always maintain a shroud of exotic mystery. And I mean that in purely positive and exciting terms.
Unfortunately, being different and exotic – and let’s face it, fabulous – also goes hand in hand with stigma and hate. There will always be those that feel the need to degrade either transgenders or people that are sexually attracted to the Trans community.
Of course, this discrimination has nothing to do with those that simply don’t find this kind of porn attractive. There have been many comments on Affect3D, for example, requesting more straight porn. And it’s a perfectly valid request. People want to see what they find hot. As long as that demand doesn’t come with slurs against others’ preferences, naturally there is nothing wrong with that.
Right, so now that we’re past the PC part, I thought I’d share my own experience.
Firstly, I’m straight. After reading this article, you might beg to differ. Well, good for you – that’s your opinion and you’re entitled to it. But let’s get one thing straight (pun intended), this article isn’t about my sexual orientation. That said, feel free to comment and share your thoughts. What this editorial is about, is the impact porn and 3DX have had on my life in recent years.
I first encountered futanari in hentai, probably around the age of twelve when the internet was really starting to scare parents. Whilst it didn’t traumatize me, I felt zero attraction towards it. The genre simply wasn’t appealing. Put a pic of a naked busty brunette in front of my eyes though and I could cum in nanoseconds. Fast-forward a few years, I’m on the verge of losing my virginity and the sight of my girlfriend undressing had the same effect. I became “resilient” to straight porn but seeing a real-life girl was just as effective as that 2D busty brunette.
Then came G4E. Up until this point, besides my clumsy encounter with hentai years earlier, and a few curious clicks on PornHub‘s Shemale category, I was none the wiser or more attracted to that genre. But Miro’s work changed that. There was something really fucking hot about the way Tara teased Sayako into fucking her brains out with that massive cock. Something unexplainably attractive about the way she wielded her incredible member. Miro had taken the male out of the picture entirely. And he had done so while maintaining the tension and electricity of straight porn. I found myself returning to G4E over and over.
A few years later, I graduated and moved to London. In London, no one judges, no one cares. In fact, the more outlandish, the freakier you are, the better – “I fink u freaky and I like it a lot”. This is also when I met tinder. Basically, it became easy to fuck and meet people you wouldn’t otherwise have met. All the while I continued to visit Affect3D and eventually started writing for the site in 2016.
Now I’ve gotta say, I love posts by artists such as Laticis or Rgus, who are experts at portraying the “fairer sex”. But I mostly come to Affect3D and virtual porn for something else, for a taste of something I can’t find in the real world.
And then I met Lola (I have changed her name for the article). Right before I left London for Paris, I was out clubbing one night and “bumped” into a very attractive young woman. She invited me back to hers. Up to this point, I hadn’t noticed anything particular about Lola – aside from the fact that she was hot. Maybe I just need better contact lenses.
It wasn’t until we were back at hers and got down to undressing that well, turns out Lola had a bit of a secret. And I don’t mean the brand of her lingerie. My first reaction was to pull back. I just couldn’t comprehend what had just happened. We both sat on the edge of her bed and talked. Only now, with a little extra light did I notice her features were a little sharper. And listening to her – that her voice was a little different. But I still found her hot as fuck, that’s the thing. I knew she was hiding a dick. But sitting there in her lingerie, she still made my boner return. We continued to chat and one thing led to another.
At this point, I also recalled Miro’s and many other 3DX artists’ work. The reality was very different. For one, Lola did not have a massive eight-inch cock. And she was in no way top. She was also incredibly feminine. In fact, it was weird – my brain kept forgetting she even had a cock.
I actually saw Lola a couple more times after that night and would have probably seen more of her had I not moved. The whole experience got me thinking. Indeed, I started drawing parallels with other ways in which pornography influences me and my sexuality. I know for example that I’m more attracted to girls with a shaved pussy. And that is definitely something that continues to cement itself over the years as I watch porn.
However, this was something different – I had found myself attracted to a person who was technically not a female. But In her mind, and therefore in mine, she became one. It was a step farther. Perhaps it was already an aspect of my sexuality I simply wasn’t aware of – that was dormant until I met the right person. But I strongly feel that had sites like Affect3D and categories like Shemales or Dickgirls not existed in porn, this is a fantasy I would undoubtedly not have explored IRL.
I’m not trying to find justification or even an explanation here. I’m simply curious as to the impact pornography has on my choices and attractions.
As I said earlier – feel free to share your thoughts or experiences of how Affect3D or other 3DX and even porn, in general, has affected your life.
Wayfarer
July 6, 2019For me, I have an 3d dickgirl attration because I started to dislike “normal” porn. There is no difference in porn, anymore it´s all the same, no variations, stepmom, stepfather, stepbrother/sister. And I feel that porn is starting be more violent, or perhaps, brutal is a more adequate word.
In the world of 3d dickgirls it is all different, many of the artists is creating really beautiful girls, several of this girls I’ve fallen in love with, and I would have dated them in a heartbeat. A nother thing is, that this 3d dickgirls/futas isn´t trans girls, but real girls with dicks, well, in the way they can be real 😀 I´m not gay, but very safe on my own sexuality, I can say that a man is attractive, but that dosen´t mean that I would go to bed with him. It is just that I find this 3d dickgirls very attractive , and as long I´m not bothering anyone, I see no harm in enjoying them. I love the work of Paradox-3d, Nonsane, Amusteven and Nova, among several more.
daniele taschner
April 1, 2019I have loved the dickgirls since I discovered them. it really is the one way that one can find extreme and exiting shemales. . I get so turned on . it’s hard to hold back in real life as I live this way myself . when I meet another. some of the girls do resemble the video dolls !!!
Metabias
December 14, 2018Congratulations, Franaus, on the way you reacted, and on your open-mindedness. Trans women who don’t disclose beforehand often run the risk of being beaten to death or shot; she took a risk with you, and you rose to the challenge.
In my experience, the difference between trans women in real life and futa or “tranny” porn is basically that trans women usually (some exceptions!) don’t like their junk and would prefer not to notice it or even refer to it as a cock. In fact, most trans women of my acquaintance prefer to be considered women who happen to have inconvenient bodies (and some of them will never have the money to alter those bodies; they just have to live with them).
As for why straight dudes can be attracted to trans women, well, the simple answer is: we’re more than bodies, and sexuality is complicated.
I’m a straight dude, which, for me, basically means I’m not attracted to dudes. I don’t like the way they talk, look, or smell. But being straight doesn’t mean I’m attracted to all women, and I’ll bet you aren’t attracted to all women either.
But there’s no formula for what makes a woman attractive. Sure, we tend to agree on certain things, but a lot of that goes out the window if I meet someone really compelling. This can include, say, a woman with slightly angular features, or broader shoulders, or slightly bigger hands, or really small boobs. At some point, you see the person, and not their body, and think, “Who cares? I like her.”
Doesn’t mean you’re not straight. Rather, as you so eloquently put it, your brain forgets she has a cock.
Being a woman is about more than the absence of a dick. And being attracted to someone is about more than their attributes.
Sexuality is complicated.
Franaus
December 15, 2018Thanks for your comment! And I agree totally about what you said on attraction
devastator
December 14, 2018very nice opinion on the topic kinda resembles mine only that i liked futanari from the first time i saw the genre
McRocket
December 13, 2018I am not attracted to shemales at all…they look like pretty men to me. I mean, if you have male sexual organs…how can you not be a male?
But I am VERY attracted to the idea of she-males having sex with women. Not sure why. I think it is the same reason I like watching monsters have animated sex with will women. I am just not turned on by the male form and have never much been into watching men have se with women (POV se was the only way I could get at all turned on by heterosexual pornography). Lesbian/solo pornography was my choice of ‘real’ porn.
So shemales and monsters give me the intercourse I like without having to see the normal males that do nothing for me.
BTW, shemales having intercourse with other shemales does absolutely nothing for me. It is like two very pretty men having sex…which does nothing for me.
Sadly, as much as I ADORE the earlier work of Moro, this latest incarnation of all shemales holds ZERO interest for me. Oh well, I will just have to hope his next creation goes back to the old style.
Mcrocket
December 13, 2018Pardon all the above typos…typing on an iPad is shitty.
Devaakito
December 10, 2018I’m the same, I’m Hetero. But I consider it very important to differentiate what is a Trans to a futanari (or dickgirl) because they are different things. A futanari is not an operated man, that is a very bad interpretation that leaves an erroneous thought. And with it a bad perception of the same name.
It is very important to know how to differentiate and use the right words to express yourself well and make others understand you.
About the impact on my personal life, I hardly huvo. Well, porn has hardly any contact in my personal life.
That if, since I met Rikolo and his (in my opinion, better work) ” fuck the police ” a world opened before me. I currently love 3dx and affect3d.
Being among my top of favorite artists Miro <3 (a rockstar genius)
Supro and Rikolo. (there is more but I do not want to leave the whole list either)
HungNHorny
December 6, 2018That’s pretty similar to my own story. Although the path in my youth is a little different. Pretty sure I became a nympho guy because my Dad had a whole calendar year of playmates hanging on the walls of our basement, right next to where I played with my toys. It probably activated my sexual hormones and part of the cortex that deals with sexual drive when I was way too young. Anyway, I was very early in my sexuality. Played doctor with boys and girls starting really early around 4 up until I reached the pre-teen years. After that though, it was all about girls. For the next two decades, it was exclusively pussy. I have to admit though, when I watched porn in those years, I always prefered to watch hung guys fucking big tittied bombshells. I prefered to see hung guys because I’m also pretty hung, and it’s just more exciting to see a big cock like mine rather than a puny or average dick (sorry for your misfortunes if you don’t have one, I think all guys (and girls) should be hung and every girl have big natural tits, but hey, dems the breaks kids).
Eventually, I ended-up meeting a girl in my late 20’s in a happy ending massage parlor (she’s a big dick queen so I got lucky and got her number) who was a pro and a nymph like me. She didn’t want a LTR, but we saw each other for several weeks and I exhausted almost every fantasy I had in those few weeks, and quite frankly, I never had fucked as much as those few weeks. At the tail end of our adventure, it became harder to cum. We’re not as lucky as women when it comes to coming. Sure we come easier, but we have to wait longer between. So what eventually happened is she told me, “y’know there are other ways you can cum just as often as women without having to wait.” I’m no dummy, I knew full well what she was suggesting. She then went on on how guys spend their entire lives playing with a dick, which is totally gay (her words), yet most of them will ridicule gay men for going just a little further. She told me most hung guys she met eventually admitted to her that they wish they could self-suck. She then continued by asking me, “be honest, have you ever had a fantasy about being able to suck your own dick”, and I relunctantly admitted that yes, it’d be incredible to have a 14 inch dick so I could do that. She finally managed to convince me to switch roles. She started it off small, but eventually moved on to something similar to what I sport. I never came as hard as that first time. She had experience and knew what and how to do it.
Some friends found out a few years later because I opened my trap to a girl I was dating and the bitch went tattletale on me. I could see just how insecure they were. Suddenly, I was gay to them, even though I had dated more girls and had longer relationships than any of them. Friends would spurt out gay jokes, as if I didn’t know it was aimed at me. I cut ties with many friends in that period. Couldn’t stand being with such close minded people.
My attractions are still centered mostly on straight porn and girls. But that’s the problem with being a nymph. You quickly exhaust fantasies so you go to other stuff. I still haven’t fucked with a guy, and I don’t think I will, because the male body turns me off. The only thing that I find hot is a huge beautiful cock, like mine. So the guy would need to be feminine and really hung for me to take that step. There are girls around who like to switch it up from time to time, so I always get what I’m looking for. One even had me sucking her huge dildo strap-on and it excited me. The weirdnest of being a nympho, get excited by new shit to try. Although there are some barriers that i’ll never cross.
Franaus
December 6, 2018Interesting story 🙂
Carl East
December 6, 2018I’ve stopped wondering why as a straight guy I’m turned on by hermaphrodites or dick girls if you prefer. I just know that they stimulate my imagination and allow my mind to escape the norms of reality. I think perhaps it’s the imagery that does it for me. Imagery that is sometimes intense and extremely erotic. It could also be the impossibility of it all and how extreme some of this 3dx can be, especially when you see a dick girl cumming bucket loads from a cock the size of which defies all reason. In the end, I guess it’s all down to imagination and I have a very strong one.
Carl
AbsoluteDegenerate
December 4, 2018I seem to be the only (admittedly) bisexual male commenting. The reason why I love futa so much is because it combines my favorite sexual characteristics together. I’ve never been a big fan of pussy, though I love the female form. Conversely, I’m not big into male physiques, but I’m basically addicted to man junk and man juices. You give me a well-put, pre-SRS, FTM tranny, and I’ll latch on to that dicc like a limpet.
Reckless dream
December 4, 2018Pretty much hit the nail on the head here!! I’m not sure I’m bi… I guess if that’s how I’m labeled I wont say “no”. I am 34 y/o, married and have a 2yo son. Ive always been with girls and I could never stand the manly physique and vocals in porn but there’s something about dicks and cum that just get me hot under the collar… when you put the feature on a gorgeous female with amazing assists it just drives me crazy! Now I’ve watched and fapped to gay and bi porn before to see if I liked it. But futa just has this ultra attraction factor that I cant say no too. EVER. I love affect3d!!!
Chris
December 3, 2018Very similar feelings from me really. I’m definitely straight with zero attraction to men, but a hot feminine woman with a big dick definitely turns me on. I think it’s interesting how popular blowjob videos are in straight porn.
I’ve read it’s because we imagine the cock ass our own, as such there does seem to be some sort of reaction men get from the sight of a hard cock on its own (without any of the male personality to ruin the illusion) getting “looked after”. Couple that with the face of a hot woman and I think it can help explain a bit more why blowjob videos, and indeed futanari, are so popular.
Franaus
December 3, 2018Great point!
Kriddius
December 3, 2018I consider myself a straight male, but I’d fuck the shit out of a futa. Specifically futanari, as in “two forms” from the Japanese terminology, she’d have to be the herm version of the “chick with dick” breed we all know and love. But…if she was hot enough and we “clicked”…. not gonna lie I’d suck her dick
Franaus
December 3, 2018Fair enough 🙂
Reality
December 2, 2018By definition, if you’re a Male and you like cock, you’re gay. Sorry to break it to you.
At least be intellectually honest with yourself, otherwise it’s just pathetic.
HungNHorny
December 6, 2018You played with you own dick your entire life.
Let that sink in. You like playing with a dick, even if it’s your own.
By your own definition, you’re gay.
You do understand that there is a gray zone called being BI, right?
Being bi isn’t being gay.
What if I only sleep with women and we sometimes switch up the roles. Does that make me exclusivelty gay? Or Bi? in your book?
The fact you need to put those labels tells you are not totally secure with your own sexuality. The fact you need to judge and label others tells me that.
Reality
December 6, 2018Lol what kind of retarded logic is that? I stimulate my own dick for the feeling, because that’s how masturbation works. It’s not like looking at it turns me on.
Look at all the denial in these comments, with people claiming they’re “100 % straight” but at the same time love dicks . If you’re bi, cool. If you’re gay, great. But don’t be a pathetic closet case.
Franaus
December 7, 2018Much aggression in this one.
Franaus
December 6, 2018I’m so happy you cleared that up for me.
someone phylosophic
December 5, 2018not sure if youre trying to be funny or something else, but its pathetic that you feel the need to comment that, cause its not obvious at all.
Franaus
December 3, 2018Glad you opened my eyes 😉
Jason Rivard
December 2, 2018I am a straight male myself and would have to say it was G4E that really turned me on to the Futanari thing as well. But I will say that with futanari is that they are perceived as being both. Futanari is translated into hermaphrodite in English so they are seen as being both sexes thus why I think I have this attraction. Futanari’s have to be definitely very female but with a add on of the huge cock. The blending of both sexes makes them so desirable to me.
Franaus
December 3, 2018Very true about the hermaphrodite aspect. Thanks for the comment 🙂
Bread Pitt
December 5, 2018i have to be honest, i think futa´s are attractive, like in G4E but im a No-Balls guy when it comes to Futas, (sorry i dont know if shemale or futa or which word is the correct one for a women with dick and without balls) but its something about the balls that turn me off… i seriously dont know what exactly but.. maybe it makes my brain think again that thats actually a man or something, because im also a straight guy. The dick can be big as hell as long as the Futa got big tits and no balls, maybe because the dick would be a substitutional thing for a strapon.
Kingsizednuts
December 2, 2018Absolute no attraction towards having sex with a female here. But there is the optically improved view compared to a standard male. Shemales are still males in every sense…
Kingsizednuts
December 2, 2018Haha, I dont know how I misspelled that one. It should have been “Absolutely no attraction towards having sex with a shemale”
Franaus
December 2, 2018Thanks for the comment. I don’t think you can say that a person is a male in every sense just because they have a dick. True a shemale or a transgender that has male genitalia is of the male sex. However, if that person considers themselves to be a woman – then their gender is female.
El Guapo
December 5, 2018i mean yes, if a person considers her/himself to be a woman or not, its their decision. But in my opinion, a woman is still someone who can give birth to children. Its not the fact that people can consider themselves to be another gender that disturbs me, not at all: we live in a free world and everyone can do with their life and decisions what they want, BUT the term “woman” is being misused in my opinion- since the word “woman” is also used for people who can give birth to children, having female organs etc. i think there should be another set of terminology for Men and Women who changed their gender since they cant do the same as born male and born female humans can: and that is producing sperms and being able to give birth. Dont get me wrong, i understand both sides, but i cant completely agree with either of them. I hope you can understand my english and my way of thinking
Kingsizednuts
December 2, 2018We may agree to disagree on that on. The sex is derived from the sexual organ. It is the way it is and the way it has allways been. Nature does not change just because one group of modern hipsters take drugs in order to suppress their hormones. The sexual organ is still the only indicator…
Franaus
December 4, 2018Lol some politicians feel the same about climate change
Franaus
December 3, 2018I’m simply quoting the English definition of gender – which isn’t necessarily based on biological factors. That’s why it exists, as opposed to the word sex which is based again on what you do or don’t have…
But yeah like you say, it’s your opinion. Fair enough. And it creates a debate which is good 🙂 So thanks.
(with regards to Bezos, go for it although ethically I’d personally go for Elon Musk 😉 )
Kingsizednuts
December 4, 2018That definition of the word has been politically changed not too long ago. But since I don’t agree with the political stance, I will stick to my own… culture has never been legislation
Franaus
December 2, 2018You’re confusing sex and gender – sex depends on what you do or don’t have between your thighs. Gender is what you identify as.
Someone who makes the decision to undergo a sex change and therefore endure the very lengthy and heavy process that comes with it identifies with the opposite sex. It’s not a choice – that person literally feels trapped in a body that’s not theirs.
Reducing that to a bunch of hipsters who takes drugs is a very simplistic and degrading way of looking at it I’m afraid.
Kingsizednuts
December 3, 2018In case you disagree, please let me know so I can start the legal process in identifying as Jeff Bezos’s son!
Kingsizednuts
December 3, 2018A word is what you define it as yourself. I have defined my word for you
Artur
December 2, 2018Yep, feel pretty much the same. I’m straight, but I love futanari. Not so much about shemale because in most cases you still can tell it’s a male, but in rare cases when the shemale is very feminine and hot, then yes, it turns on. Felt weird at first since I’m not attracted to men, but a beautiful women with a dick is something special.
Franaus
December 2, 2018🙂