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Of all the guys I’ve had sex with, I can group them into three types.
- Type 1 Will fuck you for 1-5 minutes, have an orgasm, then be ready to go again almost immediately after. When he begins again, his cock will not be as hard as it was earlier, but he’ll be able to fuck for quite a long time after, between 30 minutes to an hour. Most common.
- Type 2 Will fuck you for a good 10-20 minutes with a rock hard cock, have an orgasm, then be ready for a nap. Hard for him to get it up a second time without resting a while. Less common.
- Type 3 Will fuck you for 1-5 minutes, have an orgasm, and then not be able to get it back up again. Usually this guy is nervous, a first timer, someone who hasn’t had sex in a while, someone who is thinking about an ex, or not that attracted to you. Least common.
Type 1 is the most common in my experience, and though I think most women say they prefer sex to last a long time, I really prefer type 2 guys because their cocks are usually harder for the majority of the time they’re fucking me. Type 1s are good for blow jobs though, since they’ll still be good to go if you make them orgasm from oral. Typically if you make a type 2 orgasm from oral, you’re giving up your chance at a good fucking… Granted, most type 2 guys I encounter do stop me short of them blowing their load on my face and fuck me for a bit before coming. I suspect this is done as a courtesy of some sort, so I can at least get a bit of penetration in before they come.
Type 1 guys, as a side note, are the most likely to complain about using condoms, since they have to swap to a new one almost as soon as they’ve started, and have a harder time getting a second one on if they’re a little soft.
So the reason I wrote this all up is because I’m really quite curious about it. Is there any conscious thing that causes these distinctions? Can you guys switch from one type to another, based on the person you’re with, or do you always fall in the same category? Has it changed, maybe with time, age, or experience? Something else? (I’ve never fucked anyone over 30, so my pool of guys is a bit limited.) If you don’t fall into any of these categories, how would you describe your orgasm style? Leave me a comment! I want to know more!
scorcher64
February 9, 2013My style is a along the lines of what Tantric and ammon17 said. I’m the 4th type. With times I’m seriously horny, I can go for 30min-1hr for the first round, cum, and still be rock hard to go again immediately after, and still cum after every round. It also helps add to the experience if the girl is aggressive and keeps on stimulating me, and changes up the pace and positions. The most I’ve went for (and only happened once) was 7hrs. No lie – like I said, seriously horny. =P
Noodle
February 8, 2013For me just beatin off, never been with a female so don’t know how that is, but for me its like beat off not really feel anything building up and like drip drip not much comes out(maybe a 5th of a cough syrup cup) compared to hentai pics-videos of guys and shemales~ bust a pint or 2 of jizz then like 2 mins later bustin another pint and so on for 10 mins. For me it would be a miracle to beat off and actually send out a hose of jizz and just spray it all over the place for like 10 secs but I know that’s never going to happen.
fredfred5150
February 8, 2013If I’m not really in the mood, or I’m tired (or drunk 😀 ) I don’t or can’t have an orgasm, I usually just finish the woman off and go to sleep!
Just because I didn’t come doesn’t mean I didn’t enjoy the sex 😉
And like buckball said, theres nothing worse than a woman who’s impatient about her partner reaching orgasm, thats counterproductive ladies!
Contact
February 7, 2013@Max I’m glad to hear its not just me who has that problem. I’ve only been with 1 girl and I could never cum during sex, even after hours. But it just sounds like I can if I find the right person at least. When I did cum it’d because I pulled out and finished myself. But sorta like ammon17, I could fire a shot and just keep going and have a long prolonged orgasm afterwards while rock hard. Anyway, that’s my bit.
ammon17
February 7, 2013The closest I can come to explaining my type is I have plateaus and a continuous partial orgasm ability, kind of like females do. Often when I do choose to actually ejaculate, I do so without any accompanying orgasm whatsoever. This allows me to ejaculate upwards of ten times while maintaining a rock hard erection throughout. How did I achieve this? Years of practice and healthy living. Current age 22.
Hobbs
February 6, 2013I’m a type two, but perhaps slightly modified. I can go for longer than 30 minutes (Not bragging), but it takes a lot to get me off. A girl can’t simply lay there, and there has to be some sort of foreplay.
I’m not entirely sure why, to be honest. I think it’s because when I masterbait, I’ve always used a firm grasp, an it has sort of made it unfair for ladies, as it’s nearly impossible to reach that sort of tightness (And i’ve been with a few virgins).
Being in my mid 20s, I still have a lot of vigor and apply it thoroughly in the bedroom, but no matter the speed, I don’t seem truely satisfied with -just- sex. Often times I find more pleasure in a ‘Mouth and hand’ blowjob.
Though the moans and squeals do make sex fun.
Tantric
February 6, 2013You are missing the 4th type of male, or need to expand the time window of Type II, because going for upwards 45-50 min without getting off and never losing hardness is doable. It really comes down to knowing how to push yourself before backing down enough to not go over without the loss of stimulation. Changing pace and positions in a natural manner can make sex last longer, allowing a woman to have more orgasms and the man to have a strong orgasm at a time of his choosing. Male willpower goes a long way in making sex last longer and be more enjoyable, my experiences at least.
reddragon162
February 6, 2013The last girl I was with, I was a #3, mostly because I really didn’t want to be with her, but fucked her anyway because I didn’t want to talk my way out of the situation without telling her so. With girls that I do like and find attractive, its a mixed bag on 1 and 2 depending on how I’m feeling that day.
Type II
February 6, 2013I’m a type 2 for sure, was even more so before my 30’s. If a lady is kind enough as to let me maintain my plateau-phase I can go on for an hour or so at least (provided the stimuli are pleasant enough, of course) and stay “rock-hard” all the way too. That’s what’s most satisfying for me, and I haven’t yet gotten any complaints from the women concerned either so I suppose that’s a good thing then 😉 If the orgasm is really intense (some teetering helps) I tend to stay hard afterwards, but that coincides with the P-phase, mostly. As mentioned in posts before this one: it too is a matter of knowing one’s body. Maintaining the P-phase is sometimes tricky, it can be easy to go right past it. Luckily there are many more ways to please a lady, should that happen.
I hope it somewhat satisfied your curiosity, bookmarked your blog 🙂
P.S. ever considered a male being circumcised or not as a factor?
BuckBall
February 5, 2013It’s all a matter of willpower and “knowing your own body”. If you let me (and don’t force me to cum), I could go rock hard for an hour or more without an orgasm. You can suppress your orgasm as a male, if you got some training in this. Let’s say: It’s more difficult, if the girl, your with, drives you nuts. Type1’s are likely the ferocious ones, who can’t hold thereselves back, when the pleasure rises up. Type2’s got more body control, so when they cum, they orgasm much harder and can’t regenerate so fast as the Type1’s (more fatiguing hormones will be released). I think every guy, who masturbate longer than 20 minutes in one session, can verify, that the orgasm of males get more intense, if you supress and delay them. Hope this gives you a insight in our functionality ;D
Sorry, if there are any grammar or spelling errors. English isn’t my native language 😉
jbtrimar
February 5, 2013I’m a Type 1 if I have been drinking. If not, being an older guy, I tend to last 5 to 10 minutes, orgasm, wait 20 minutes (women’s turn for pleasure at that point) then be ready to go again. This can go on for about 3 to 4 times, then it is nap time.
dowang
February 5, 2013I’m 32 and a virgin, so this will be from a pure masturbation point of view.
And in which case how I have orgasms oh so depends on how I do it.
Most often I’m just a Type 2, rock-hard for a while, and then need a small rest.
But if I take my time, I can stay rock-hard for hours and orgasm multiple times whilst doing it. Does require taking it slow, but eh.
Max
February 5, 2013I have to say that I cannot really identify with any of these types mentioned here(type 2 maybe).
I used to think that I suffered from a disorder, retarded/delayed ejaculation, because with my former girlfriend I never came during sex(but she did). Now I discovered, with my new girlfriend, that I can actually have an orgasm with a partner, but I am very specific. There are only a few positions that can result in me having an orgasm, and I can usually keep going for up to two hours at which point my stamina/endurance starts to fail me.
Anyway, I just thought that I should share after reading this article…