Sex and death. Two topics that we obsess over. Of course, she is both. Erotic and morbid. The end and a new beginning. She brings release.
But how far are you willing to go? What do you want? Do you seek a fleeting moment of ecstasy, or the ultimate release from suffering? Would you let her take you unto oblivion, and meet you on the other side?
Regardless of the goals, you first must summon the spirit before you entreat with it. This is voodoo, or Vodou, after all. You must perform a ritual. A spirit so powerful may require an offering, or a sacrifice.
Aleister Crowley famously offered ejaculate as a sacrifice. Following this method, there is release in the summoning itself. Would you use a sexual sacrifice to summon this death spirit? It is certainly no accident that the French refer to orgasm as petite mort, little death. Perhaps she is already with you, offering a glimpse of oblivion in your moment of release.